the feeling of love

i read this in my fren blog, i would say quite true

The feelings of "love"

I believe , we have 3stages of this so called love....
the first being when you were only 7 years old...remember that girl whose hand you held for the first time...yes, she probably sat next to u in nursery...what ever happened to her?
the second being when you had just gone midway through your puberty...remember that girl who you saw everytime and your heart skipped a beat...and every time you thought of her, your general took command...you had those fantasy sexual encounters and emotions fulfilled....well yeah, guess what she was your "love" at that time...then again ask yourself...whatever happened to her?
the third being when you just finished your teenage years...you actually thought you had what it took to be a man and stand on your own two feet and face the world.....then you saw this girl...your heart began beating faster than ever...you got to know her...you became intimate, you became "one"..you shared all those dreams of being together...(the nice plush houses, the nice looking children you'd have) everything you dreamt with her....but as times went on, you never changed..you did all you could to keep them happy...but they changed...they began seeing all the flaws in you..they began rejecting your love..they began acting distant from the dreams you shared...they started making all sorts of excuses as to why things weren't working out....what did you do wrong? you gave it your all....unfortunately the relationship came to an end....you seemingly went into "depression" you thought she is all that mattered to you....you can not imagine yourself in "love" again...Sorry to bust your bubble people, but that "love" which you shared with her...you shared it with 2 other different timeline girls as well...what ever happened to them? and in this case whatever happened to you? look at it from her point....
The moral here is to,Just get over your lousy heartbreaks...because love is just an emotion of the moment...we are blessed to have the ability to hurt and heal....emotions are nothing when you learn to control them....the emotions are mere slaves of our thinking...change your thinking...life is not all about love..it is about achievement and success....yes love is needed, but like i said, when something comes to an end its the open door for a new opportunity....live life to the brim and enjoy every moment of it...

cheris